I might have mentioned this before, but it bears repeating. If you've discovered that one of your female "friends" likely has a character defect, and you want to speak with her, make sure you do this in person, and not by letter or by email. The latter is an especially poor way to communicate with a narcopath, because it's very likely she'll use these emails to hurt you.
For instance, she may keep asking for clarification about what you meant, in your original email. Each question is designed to put you on edge. When confronted about anything, a narcissist will deny responsibility and turn the blame on you. So you fire back repeated emails, attempting to explain yourself. These repeated emails might, eventually, become emotional, as you attempt to defend yourself from her repeated accusations. If someone else read these, they could conclude that you, and not the narcissist, are the source of the problems.
Unfortunately, you'll be playing right into her web of deceit. If you send such correspondence to a morally disordered person, you can rest assured she'll share it with as many people as possible, in order to convince them that you have "a lot of anger" or are "unstable." Of course, she'll never show them the emails from her that precipitated this exchange.
Actually, it's wrong to share a private email with anyone else. If someone tries to share another's personal email with you, I'd call their motives into question. I'd also refuse to read it.
A malignant narcissist has zero integrity. Never underestimate her capacity for deception, and her ability to plot and plan to achieve her goal of destroying someone else.
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